How can I help my husband become more comfortable with the idea of parenthood?

My husband wanted a baby just keep talking to him show him ways you can save money maybe breastfeeding and cloth diaper. Ask him what is the ideal date for him. remind him there will never be enough money. That is what I did to get my husband on board. Also when you are pregnant do not get upset if he is not as happy I just learned is men do not get excited to the end only woman get excited before . I bought my husband my boys can swim he likes it. I am 10 weeks he would sometimes say i forget you are pregnant. It is men.